My ex boyfriend owes me $50,000 Can I sue him? How can I get it back?
Wednesday, July 21st, 2010 at
1:40 am
My ex boyfriend owes me money for bills, and some other things as well. How can I get it back? I have nothing down in writing, because while we were together it was assumed he was going to pay me back.
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just wait a few months, call him, and if he doesnt do anything u can sue him for those charges
Sue his dead beat self!
Get your receipts and take him to court.
Nothing in writing? Then, it becomes a ” he said, she said” issue.Good luck. You are going ot need it.
This calls for Jerry Springer! Lol. Jk. Sue him!
sue his stealing bum!
I say.. Get a lawyer, and a damn good one too
If you have nothing down in writing then of course you can not sue him. How can you prove anything?
For $50,000 I’d definitely give it a try in court. Before you do though, you might want to go to him under the guise of working something out and get him to sign a contract stating that he will pay you back. Sometimes you have to play fake-nice to get something. It would be so much better for you if you had something in writing or witnesses that can prove your side of things.
Legally you had a verbal agreement which is enough to stand in court. Do you have the bills showing you paid them? Any witness’ to your conversations?
small claims court.
And you shouldve had stuff down in writing.
Bring witnesses bank slips (I assume you got the money from the bank and didnt just have 50,000 dollors laying around)
ruin his life slash his tyres smash his windows break into his house and burn his clothes tee hee
Don’t wait any time. It’s your money. You should’ve got it down on writing or something.
SUE HIS ASS. HE TOOK YOUR MONEY.
You can never trust anyone that much. Anybody has the potential to be a theif, murderer, or even worse.
If you didnt have notes or agreements written down or receipts I dont think you can sue acording to court tv, when you watch those shows they always want something written down. Maybe you could just let it go, people are allways suing each other, its kind of sickening.
Well, I would say you were not too smart to give your boyfriend such a huge amount. unless you have something in writing, even suing him wont work, there’s no legal evidence after all. Do you know someone who can get him to spend a huge amount without knowing that the person has been sent by you?
you sound like type of girls that are judge judy that she calls an “idiot”….you sound like a perfect candidate for the show, i suggest you go it.
Any judge will say this was a gift. Since you have nothing in writing, he will either say you never gave it to him or that it was a gift. Without something in writing or some other proof this money was supposed to be loans, you are basically out of luck.
This sort of thing happens on Judge Judy all the time, and without evidence of a loan you are going to get nothing.
you can sue him but you should key his car and when he sues you, you counter-sue him
Yes, you can sue him. But not if it was out of the goodness of your heart because you were together, and now you want to be paid back. Be sure you can at least narratively tell a judge when and how much you loaned. And be sure you confidently expressed to the ex that it was a loan. If not, a judge will assume you did it as a favor.
Also, if it was $50,000, you’ll have to go through a lawyer. Small Claims only goes up to $5000 in most states.
Purchase a unregistered gun in utah then go to his house. Enter the home wearing all black. Next, shoot him in the knee caps (shoot 2 bullets in each knee). Beat teh living s*** out of him till he gives you you rmoney back. Good luck.
You can sue him but i doubt you will win. That is an expensive lesson you won’t soon forget.
if u have already asked him 4 it and he wont give you it back you might as well 4 get bot it thats just life 4 ya you carnt sue him cos you hav no prove he owes you it!!!
I sure that will become a he said, she said deal. Good luck! Hope you learned your lesson about trusting a dead beat.